In light of my recent post about generosity at the check-out line and the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, this NY Times column caught me eye as it asked that basic question. Might be a good question to ask your students, “Since giving to others makes us feel good, why don’t people do it?” or even ask them what percentage of people give way 2% or more of their income?
Here is the stat that stood out from the research findings: More than 85% donate less than 2% of their income so only 15% give away more than 2% of their income. Why is that? The research comes up with a few explanations:
- Don’t think of generosity as a moral obligation
- Don’t have enough money
- Jobs make us too tired to be generous
- Give to causes at work
- Think that poor people should help themselves
So, what’s the downside to being ungenerous? The researchers conclude the report with the following thoughts:
In the end, however, the fear of not having enough, coupled with an autonomously individualistic lifestyle, nearly always proves to be deeply unfulfilling. Attaining the sort of happiness found in material well-being and security, which the majority of ungenerous Americans pursue without regard for others, comes at a great personal cost. The battle is won, but the war is lost. The means people use to achieve this version of happiness leads to a self-defeated end. And that frustrated end obscures the deeper, richer, more complex kinds of happiness humans want, sending them on misguided searches for more of what already does not satisfy.
What do your students think?